Love that Endures. Wisdom that Lasts.

Discover the depth of a love that transcends the vows, the years, and the changes.

Together since 1965.

Because Every Love Story Deserves to Be Told.

Navigating the Peaks and Valleys of Love, Together.

Marriage is more than the good days—it’s about finding joy in the everyday and strength in the difficult moments. We’ve faced our share of challenges, but through it all, we’ve uncovered the secrets to keeping love alive. Whether it’s rediscovering each other through new adventures or simply holding on when times get tough, our journey is proof that love can grow deeper with time. Ready to explore what’s possible when you stay true to each other?

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Passionate Parent

Passionate Couple

Balancing the roles of being parents and partners can be a challenge—but it doesn’t have to mean losing the spark. In ‘Passionate Parent, Passionate Couple,’ Ed and Betty share their story and practical insights on keeping the connection alive even after the kids arrive. Discover how to reignite your passion, communicate with empathy, and find time for each other amidst the beautiful chaos of family life. This book is your guide to thriving in love while embracing the joys (and challenges) of parenthood.

Our Community.

Unlock deeper insights into love and relationships with Ed and Betty. As a member of The Insiders Circle, you’ll gain access to exclusive workshops, personalized guidance, and behind-the-scenes content that’s only available to our community. It’s a space for couples who are ready to invest in their love story, learn from others, and grow together. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your bond or rediscover each other, this circle is your path to a more connected, passionate relationship.

In- Person Workshop.

Step into a space where love, faith, and intimacy come together. Our ‘Living Sacred Sexuality’ workshop is designed for couples ready to deepen their connection through meaningful conversations and guided exercises. Explore the concepts of intimacy through the lens of Pope John Paul II’s Theology of the Body, and discover new ways to enrich your relationship. This is more than a workshop—it’s a chance to reconnect, reignite, and find new depth in your marriage.

  • "Their wonderful sense of humor and great honesty make it so very enjoyable and empowering to listen to them."

    “Ed and Betty made a huge contribution to our school and its families by being so open in their search for better ways to relate to each other and their children. Their essays in our school newsletter show all the bumps in their road to more respect, communication, and peace at home. Their wonderful sense of humor and great honesty make it so very enjoyable and empowering to listen to them.”

    - Jef Fern Teacher, Ho`ala School

  • "They say marriage and parenting don't come with instructions... but now it does. Thanks to Ed and Betty Coda!"

    "Passionate Parent Passionate Couple blends timeless pearls of wisdom with contemporary culture, unlike any other book I've read. They say marriage and parenting don't come with instructions... but now it does. Thanks to Ed and Betty Coda!"

    —Dr. Darryl & Diana Salvador

  • "If you want to make the spark that brought you together as a couple last a lifetime, Passionate Parent Passionate Couple is a must read.“

    “Ed and Betty Coda have created a refreshing blueprint for making marriage and family life a joyous and fulfilling adventure!"

    —Jose & Mary Elizabeth Alvior

  • “Ed and Betty offer an authentic perspective that flows straight from their hearts."

    "Passionate Parent Passionate Couple combines wit, wisdom, insight, and ageless advice to create a primer on how to make marriage and parenting joyful and magical. With six children of their own, Ed and Betty offer an authentic perspective that flows straight from their hearts."

    -Dave & Sue Shanahan

  • “This book contains the secrets to having a joyful, loving, and fulfilling family life."

    "Ed and Betty have lived the concepts shared in this book. Having known their family for more than 26 years we see the love and joy in their relationship and now in their children's families. This book contains the secrets to having a joyful, loving, and fulfilling family life."

    —Ed & Sybilla Alexander

  • "All parents, no matter the size of their family, shall see and believe that it is possible to live their lives nurturing, raise their children, and still maintain and even improve their love and passion for each other. "

    "Reality TV shows us how hard life and marriage are when trying to raise strong, intelligent, kind-hearted children. All parents, no matter the size of their family, shall see and believe that it is possible to live their lives nurturing, raise their children, and still maintain and even improve their love and passion for each other. Ed & Betty are living proof."

    —Chryslyn Hayes, Daughter of Ed & Betty

  • "Ed and Betty Codas love and passion for each other and their close family relationships are very visible and contagious. "

    “We have known Ed and Betty for over 45 years and whenever we are with them, they touch our hearts with their warmth, joy and deep commitment to continually work on having an exciting and passionate marriage relationship and maintaining a close family bond with all of their children."

    —Eunice Paglinawan

  • "When I'm with Ed and Betty, there's a feeling of peace and acceptance for who I am. I know that they are listening when I express my thoughts or feelings.... They are compassionate and will go the distance for you."

    They are compassionate and will go the distance for you."

    —Vic Canubida

  • "They are the real deal! The Coda family lives what they preach."

    "We've seen many of the concepts outlined in the book in practice in their family. As parents of a family with two flourishing kids, we feel fortunate to know Ed and Betty and benefit from their advice, encouragement, and their example."

    -Teresa Hei

  • "I have observed first-hand the unbridled success these concepts have produced in every family that applies them. "

    "Ed and Betty Coda have perfected the "recipes", now it's time for us to "cook" successful families with those recipes. I have closely observed Ed, Betty and their family for almost 40 years ... this stuff works."

    —Janice Takemoto-Gentile

  • " To witness their family in action is the epitome of how a family should be."

    "The Codas' writing of a book on parenting could not be more appropriate. To witness their family in action is the epitome of how a family should be. Their love for each other is truly visible in their children and grandchildren."

    -Ron Gochenouer

  • "They are the best example we know of what living in love is all about."

    "As a newly married couple, having a model of what lasting love looked like-while balancing both family & career-continues to inspire us today. Ed & Betty Coda have long been our model of what real, lasting love looks like in action. We have had the honor to witness the results they have produced in their own lives and hope to create such love in our own relationship. They are the best example we know of what living in love is all about."

    —Gabe & Iris Stepanic

  • "The Codas are truly a rare find in this world, an invaluable resource on finances, relationships and beyond."

    "As one of the top coaches in the world I have worked with the richest families and the poorest families, working with Ed and the Coda family redefined how I think about business and what I believe is possible in business. The Codas are truly a rare find in this world, an invaluable resource on finances, relationships and beyond."

    —Sarano Kelley, Author and Coach

  • "We only hope to follow the same path and be as honestly happy as they are."

    "I have known Ed and Betty for many years. I not only have experienced them as a couple in marriage, but also I had the pleasure of knowing Ed and Betty as passionate and loving parents to me as if I were their own. My husband and I have witnessed their success in all aspects of life. We only hope to follow the same path and be as honestly happy as they are."

    —Brianna & Julio Fuentes

  • " It is their counsel on making our marriage the center of our lives that provides our kids with the security to be themselves. "

    "Betty and Ed are our dear friends that always gave us good advice, so we made them our parenting consultants. It is their counsel on making our marriage the center of our lives that provides our kids with the security to be themselves. We are so grateful to have them in our lives!"

    —Jay Trygstad

  • "In Ed and Betty's sharing of their relationship with us, we have seen the struggles that couples go through."

    "They bare themselves to us, giving me hope and renewing my belief in a passionate, accepting, and forgiving marriage. They are an inspiration to me."

    -Teresa Gochenouer

  • "This volume by Ed and Betty Coda clarifies that the union between divine and human, flesh and spirit, is God's plan for us all, especially for married couples. It is a gift to remind us that God wants to meet us in the ordinary aspects of our lives."

    "The Word was made flesh and dwelt among us." These words from the first chapter of the Gospel of John summarize the most wonderful thing God has done for us. He became one of us in Jesus Christ, forever uniting human flesh and divine life. This volume by Ed and Betty Coda clarifies that the union between divine and human, flesh and spirit, is God's plan for us all, especially for married couples. It is a gift to remind us that God wants to meet us in the ordinary aspects of our lives."

    —Most Reverend Larry Silva, Catholic Bishop of Honolulu

  • "Ed and Betty Coda are inspirational. They played a large role in the reason our family exists today."

    "Ed and Betty are the ultimate example of family excellence, from their knowledge of Natural Family Planning to their inherent love and passion for people, parent-hood, and progeny."

    —Aaron & Kimberly Meyer

About us

Ed & Betty Coda.

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DECADES OF COMBINED LIFE EXPERIENCE, LOVE, AND MARRIAGE.

COUPLES INSPIRED THROUGH WORKSHOPS, BOOKS, AND MENTORSHIP.

HEARTS TOUCHED THROUGH OUR MESSAGE OF LASTING LOVE AND INTENTIONAL CONNECTION.

Every great love story has its trials, triumphs, and moments of growth.

Ours began in 1965, and through decades of navigating marriage, parenthood, and life’s unexpected turns, we’ve learned what it takes to build a lasting connection. From the early days of learning to communicate to the later years of keeping the spark alive amidst family life, our experiences have shaped us into guides for couples seeking more.

We believe that love is a lifelong journey—one that requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to grow together. Today, we’re here to share the insights and lessons that have carried us through it all. Whether through our workshops, books, or personal coaching, we’re committed to helping other couples find their way back to each other, no matter where they are on their journey.

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